The third person

A relationship is mostly a two person game and it's peaceful that way. A relationship between two people is a journey, where both of them try to study each other, understand each other's strength and weaknesses. But, when we don't get closure, we fight. We fight for the answers to the question 'why is he/she behaving like this' and when we don't get that answer well most, seperate for a temporary amount of time in the name of some 'space to think' 'time to think'. But at this very time both of them but females in general, seek people to express their feelings. Usually to girls in general but some males see this as a bonding opportunity and offer their shoulders to cry on. That's when they psychologically attack the female at her most vulnerable time to extract all the information about her relationship, and mostly about you. Now the time's up. Now both of you talk, but the only difference is the talks between you both is shared between the third person who judges you based on her perspective but assess the situation according what he thinks is best for her. That's when she starts noticing how much the third man cares about her and like this a new relationship is created on the expense of a man's life.